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Accidentally i ended up in a polygamous relationship. You're sure to wonder how that works. Very easily. First i was in a relationship with my little crush. Had argued. Didn't know what i was about. He had not answered for several months. I've heard that he has a new girlfriend. I thought, good ok. Some time later i started to build a relationship with my big crush. Then he answered again. It was not over by his side. That with the new girlfriend was not true. Now I feel bad. The two are also friends. I'm lucky they do not talk about this. On the one hand, i don't want to break the heart of the one. On the other hand, i don't want to break that with the other one before it starts. I've been thinking about a polygamous relationship before. But they wouldn't have agreed to that because they didn't understand it and didn't want to understand it. I want to be honest with them. But how? I wouldn't only lose a partner but also a friend. Both mean so much to me and i've known them for a long time. What shall i do now? Sry this will be the first testpost of mine š
You need to shut up you fucking gay faggot. Fuck god, fuck Jesus. Fuck you in general. Stay the fuck off the posts because they will not listen to you. Rot in hell because your God does not love gay or bi sexual people. He created man and woman. Not man and man or woman and woman. Anybody who identifies as gay or bi will not go into heaven. They will go to the fire pits of hell. That's where you are going when you die. not heaven. We are here to cause sins and have sex with each other and there is nothing you can do to stop us. We are all stronger than your weak ass. So again fuck you
God loves us all. But is He pleased with us?
look at it this way: your love your spouse or friend, but he or she hurts you in some way. The love is still there, but are you happy with that person? Probably not. But youāre willing to reconcile, arenāt you? Thatās exactly how God works. Thatās what marriage is aboutāa reflection of the relationship between God and man. Intimate, deep, nothing hidden.
It's one thing to be TEMPTED, another to ACT.
Lots of people have actually thanked me for calling them out. And Iām not trying to put anyone down. I donāt want you to suffer as I have. You are going down the same road I have and I want you to be better than me. Weāre here to love God and love people. Not have sex. To serve others and bring them to God. Thatās all, my friend. Be better than me. I know you can.
āyou wanna know whatās on the other side? Ask someone whoās coming back.ā So ask me and many others who are willing to kill themselves over their past mistakes.
āa wise man learns from his mistakes. A smart man from othersā mistakes.ā
you curse me, I will bless you. I love you, sir. More than you know. Iād die for you in a heartbeat. But I guess no dying is coming for now, so⦠just take my advice, pretty please
The one who is cheated on has two options: stay AND forgive or leave AND forgive. forgiveness is mandatory. āForgive as God forgave youā (Ephesians 4:32)
But donāt worry, Justice WILL come for all parties (the husband, the wife, the side dude/chick. (Proverbs 6:26-35, 7:5. Read proverbs 5-7. Focuses solely on cheating and marriage. Good stuff, really.)
also, watch āamazing Love.ā The actingās okay, but the lesson is that we are just like Hoseaās unfaithful wife. Weāre the unfaithful wife to God. But God will ALWAYS take us back, regardless of the r@pe, murder, cheating, lies, denies of Him, etc. if we repent.
Also, I have to inform you that you CANT divorce UNLESS you get cheated on, and you CANT get remarried after divorcing someone unless your divorced spouse dies. So make it count the first time. (Matt 5:28-32, Rom 7:1-3)
freeze all your credit cards and money. Make sure all assets that he or she has access to are revoked.
then, (I donāt mean to force anything on anyone) but ask God to bestow His grace on you to forgive him or her, then ask God to bestow His grace on her to forgive him or herself.
Grieve. Take time to know that you may never get back together again. Distract yourself. Get to know the single you again. Find your strengths, weaknesses, and turn them into strengths. Pray to God to help you heal.
Iām gonna tell you what I tell the others. Hear me out.
ultimately, (I donāt mean to force anything on you,) but ask God to send the right friends in your life and to remove the wrong ones for you. Same goes for your future wife or husband. Just pray, and wait. keep God first, as Billy Graham said.
Look around you. People did things their way and now people commend cheating (emotionally and physically), open relationships, and open marriages.
Unfortunately these people (both non-Christians AND SOME Christians) encourage cheating (both emotional and physical) and open relationships and open marriages (more emotional cheating) are crossing the lines of {Lev 18-20, Ex 20:26, Num 5:18-31, Prov 5ā7, Mal 2:13-15, Matt 5:28-32, Matt 7:12-23, Matt 25:11-12, Lk 13:27, Heb 13:4}
The real one that God has for you wonāt cheat on you emotionally or physically and wonāt want open relationships and open marriages. Itāll be magicalā-your wife/husband will only want you and no one else. He/she will only want to be with you and know you while serving God with you. How cool is that?
After all, āThe Blessing of the Lord brings wealth. He adds no painful toil to it.ā -Prov 10:22
And āHe who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.ā - prov 18:22
And āHouses and wealth are inherited from parents, but a prudent wife is from the Lord.ā -Prov 19:14
(I donāt mean to force anything on you,) but ask God to send the right friends in your life and to remove the wrong ones for you.Ā
Same goes for your future wife or husband. Just pray, and wait. keep God first, as Billy Graham said.
these men and women are your brothers and sisters.
āThat man sitting next to you, thatās your brother. That woman over there, lthatās your sister.ā -Stan Lee
Treat them as such. Besides, some of these people are taken. How would you like it if someone gave your girlfriend/wife or husband/boyfriend a certain look?
My friend, donāt do this. These men and women are just trying to get by. They donāt need anyone looking at them in a certain way. They just want to be loved, Not lusted after. Not looked at and used like a s3x toy and put away when not needed. They might be low on money, they could have been traumatized, they could be su!cidal, they could be selling their bodies unwillingly so they can get cash. Please. You donāt know what theyre going through.Ā
Cool storyāmany of these women are being tr@fficked and r@ped in YOU KNOW WHAT. these pictures arenāt consensual. Imagine if this happened to your wife, girlfriend, sister, mother, cousin, friend, grandmother, aunt, etc. them begging for their life while doing terrible nasty things.
Ayo, i donāt mean to force anything on anyone, but we have various types of evidence for biblical events, if anyone is interested. I also found ways to combat lust, if anyone is interested. (Iām talking archaeological evidence, miracles caught live, arguments against evolution, divine revelation, science, cosmology, fulfilled prophecy, evidence for the Bible outside of the Bible, Godās work in peopleās lives, etc.)
Couples have been where youāre at, got older and now they are divorced. Now they are warning others to not do open relationships. Learn from them!
When someone wants an open relationship, He or she was or is probably cheating on you emotionally or physically, and now just wants permission to continue.
Look, please stop this. Spare yourself some STDās along with physical and emotional cheating. You do know your either or both partners will just regard you as āfree food, free shelter, and a free therapist.āĀ
Open relationships is literally cheating but yo donāt confront the cheater. And itās EMOTIONAL CHEATING!! YOURE RUINING OTHER PEOPLEāS RELATIONSHIPS ALONG WITH YOURS!Ā
You say you want to spend time WITH the one person, yet you spend time WITH OTHER PEOPLE!
take marriage for example: I mean, did you notice how it was only you two making vows to one another, and not three or more people there?
as for those who encourage sleeping with others while in a relationship: You donāt need validation from other people. these people donāt care about you. They donāt care about your personality, what you like or dislike. What your favorite cereal and superheroes are. What your favorite movie genres and hobbies are. What your favorite music genres are. They just want to use youā-use your body as a pawn, a mere object, a mere sack of meat For their own gain. They donāt care for your well being.
Think about think about it, youāre pouring your heart out to your romantic partner yet your partner is thinking about someone else entirely as youāre doing so.Ā
look, I love everybody as Christ tells us to, but you woke people are crazy at times
Who can resist some temptation especially in office!
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A friend of mine said he thought only Muslims have more than 1 wife, but I remembered other groups who did, as well as the fact that 99% of Muslims I've met only had 1 wife (though 41% or more of Muslims are recorded as being polygamists), so here is the list of groups of people whose lifestyle is polygamy; having more than one wife at the same time:
⦠Buddhists (even in nations such as Nepal and Bhutan, confirmed by my friends who live there and grew up there)
⦠Celts (and many of their deities)
⦠Christians (Mormons and various others of this religion's more than 45,000 denominations)
⦠Hindus (during the Vedic times and others)
⦠Jews (such as King Solomon (who had more than 900 wives and more than 300 concubines) and others)
⦠Mongols, such as Genghis Khan and most of his male relatives for several generations before and after his reign (Genghis Khan, in fact, had so many that today there are 37 MILLION people related to him, 16 million are direct descendants of him, and that means 1 out of every 200 people on Earth comes from his life of polygamy --maybe that's why they say all Asians look alike! LOL)
⦠Muslims (mostly Sultans and other well-to-do families)
⦠Native Americans (many tribes, in fact --and that is for ALL the Americas; North, Central/Latin, and South)
⦠Norse, such as Viking warlords (and many of their deities)
⦠Royalty (many patriarchs well known throughout history in dozens of nations around the world have had many wives at the same time)
⦠Atheists (Charlie Sheen comes to mind; two wives at the same time)
⦠Scientologists (yes, some of their beliefs are rather amusing, but that is beside the point here)
⦠Deities (many ancient gods, in general; not just of the Celts or Norse, are said to've had lots of wives)
⦠and more than 200 million of the people in my country alone have, according to surveys and statistics from others sources, considered some degree of this lifestyle, usually starting by experimenting with affairs for a variety of reasons --including the fact that their spouses and other partners were turned ON by such 'cheating'; it actually strengthened their relationships, contrary to popular belief (or hater-agendas, propaganda, and media-flooding)
⦠there are more than 50,000 known polygamists in the USA alone, and that number has been doubling every few years (even though, technically, excepting in Utah, polygamy is frowned upon by some U.S. laws)
⦠and then there is the fact that nearly 50 million people use affairs-based online communities such as Ashley Madison, many of those flings resulting in secret second (and third) marriages
⦠and polygamy is not only legal, but protected by law in more than half the 196 countries on this Earth
⦠and I was even married to a woman who was a polygamist; she had another husband living in another country at the same time she was married to me
⦠in total, about 1/8 of the human population practices polygamy (nearly 1 billion people), and between 1/3 and 1/2 of the human population lives in nations which either protect or at least allow polygamy (2.5 to 3.7 billion people live near polygamists, are accustomed to polygamy in their daily lives, and/or ARE the polygamists)
And if polygamy wasn't demonized by insecure individuals and groups, you'd better believe that the percentage of humans practicing polygamy would skyrocket from its current 13% to something more like 90%.
So when you see on my website that I, too, am a polygamist, now you know that it is actually quite common, perfectly normal, and as natural, healthy, and timeless as any relationships get. Yes, I will have many more wives in the future. Yes, I have the capacity to love them all. Yes, they will be in love with me and each other; we will all love one another fully and equally. Yes, it is okay. Yes, it is fun. Yes, I highly recommend it.
Polygamy isn't for everyone, but it IS for a LOT of people just about EVERYWHERE (~90 nations so far, and counting). Give it a try. You might be glad you did.
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When in a polyamorous relationship, it is important that you understand that there is no competition between you and the other people in your polycule.
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If you are in a relationship and both of you want to explore new sexual experience, threesomes can be a good idea for you. However, it is not easy to find a right third one. In the following, there are some tips on how to invite a third to join a threesome. Hope they are helpful for you.
Communicate with your partner openly and honestly
Before inviting a third person to join you, you have to communicate with your partner openly and honestly. You should discuss your fantasies, desires and boundaries with each other, ensure you are on the same page.
2. Discuss your boundaries and expectations
Discuss you and your partnerās boundaries and expectations honestly, including sexual acts, emotional connections and any other limitations may exist. Then, respect each otherās boundaries and ensure everyone will feel comfortable and safe.
3. Choose the right third
Discuss what type of person you are interested in inviting with your partner. First, make sure you want to invite a female or male. Then, discuss whether you want to have this experience with a friend or stranger. A friend is not recommended, because it may destroy your relationships or make you feel awkward after the experience. If you want to invite a strange, make sure you are both interested in him/her.
There are many ways to find a stranger for a threesome.
Find one in social dating groups
Find one in a swinger club
Find one on a threesome dating app/site
Hire a professional one
4. Approach the third with respect
It is important to approach the third partner with respect. Tell him/her your desires, needs, expectations and boundaries openly. Also, you should respect his/her boundaries and feelings.
5. Communicate clearly
It is crucial to communicate all of your expectations, desires, concerns and boundaries clearly and transparently with the potential third partner. Ensure you three have a mutual understanding of what will happen during the experience.
6. Prioritize consent
Consent is the fundamental aspect of any sexual encounter, especially important in threesomes. Remember to check each otherās boundaries and feeling during the threesome. If anyone feels uncomfortable and want to stop, stop immediately.
7. Safe sex
No matter who you invited in for a threesome, remember safe sex. You need discuss safety measures with your partner and the third before proceeding.
I think deep down everyone wants some level of this. Women understand women and naturally feel more open and connected. Removing fear jealousy and insecurity from the equation opens up possibilities
The only rule to poly is that everyone needs to be on the same page and be aware of any other partners a person has.