When You’re Cheated On In A Relationship

When you’re Cheated on in a relationship

The one who is cheated on has two options: stay AND forgive or leave AND forgive. forgiveness is mandatory. “Forgive as God forgave you” (Ephesians 4:32)

But don’t worry, Justice WILL come for all parties (the husband, the wife, the side dude/chick. (Proverbs 6:26-35, 7:5. Read proverbs 5-7. Focuses solely on cheating and marriage. Good stuff, really.)

also, watch “amazing Love.” The acting’s okay, but the lesson is that we are just like Hosea’s unfaithful wife. We’re the unfaithful wife to God. But God will ALWAYS take us back, regardless of the r@pe, murder, cheating, lies, denies of Him, etc. if we repent.

Also, I have to inform you that you CANT divorce UNLESS you get cheated on, and you CANT get remarried after divorcing someone unless your divorced spouse dies. So make it count the first time. (Matt 5:28-32, Rom 7:1-3)

freeze all your credit cards and money. Make sure all assets that he or she has access to are revoked.

then, (I don’t mean to force anything on anyone) but ask God to bestow His grace on you to forgive him or her, then ask God to bestow His grace on her to forgive him or herself.

Grieve. Take time to know that you may never get back together again. Distract yourself. Get to know the single you again. Find your strengths, weaknesses, and turn them into strengths. Pray to God to help you heal.

I’m gonna tell you what I tell the others. Hear me out.

ultimately, (I don’t mean to force anything on you,) but ask God to send the right friends in your life and to remove the wrong ones for you. Same goes for your future wife or husband. Just pray, and wait. keep God first, as Billy Graham said.

Look around you. People did things their way and now people commend cheating (emotionally and physically), open relationships, and open marriages.

Unfortunately these people (both non-Christians AND SOME Christians) encourage cheating (both emotional and physical) and open relationships and open marriages (more emotional cheating) are crossing the lines of {Lev 18-20, Ex 20:26, Num 5:18-31, Prov 5–7, Mal 2:13-15, Matt 5:28-32, Matt 7:12-23, Matt 25:11-12, Lk 13:27, Heb 13:4}

The real one that God has for you won’t cheat on you emotionally or physically and won’t want open relationships and open marriages. It’ll be magical—-your wife/husband will only want you and no one else. He/she will only want to be with you and know you while serving God with you. How cool is that?

After all, “The Blessing of the Lord brings wealth. He adds no painful toil to it.” -Prov 10:22

And “He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.” - prov 18:22

And “Houses and wealth are inherited from parents, but a prudent wife is from the Lord.” -Prov 19:14

(I don’t mean to force anything on you,) but ask God to send the right friends in your life and to remove the wrong ones for you. 

Same goes for your future wife or husband. Just pray, and wait. keep God first, as Billy Graham said.

these men and women are your brothers and sisters.

“That man sitting next to you, that’s your brother. That woman over there, lthat’s your sister.” -Stan Lee

Treat them as such. Besides, some of these people are taken. How would you like it if someone gave your girlfriend/wife or husband/boyfriend a certain look?

My friend, don’t do this. These men and women are just trying to get by. They don’t need anyone looking at them in a certain way. They just want to be loved, Not lusted after. Not looked at and used like a s3x toy and put away when not needed. They might be low on money, they could have been traumatized, they could be su!cidal, they could be selling their bodies unwillingly so they can get cash. Please. You don’t know what theyre going through. 

Cool story—many of these women are being tr@fficked and r@ped in YOU KNOW WHAT. these pictures aren’t consensual. Imagine if this happened to your wife, girlfriend, sister, mother, cousin, friend, grandmother, aunt, etc. them begging for their life while doing terrible nasty things.

Ayo, i don’t mean to force anything on anyone, but we have various types of evidence for biblical events, if anyone is interested. I also found ways to combat lust, if anyone is interested. (I’m talking archaeological evidence, miracles caught live, arguments against evolution, divine revelation, science, cosmology, fulfilled prophecy, evidence for the Bible outside of the Bible, God’s work in people’s lives, etc.)

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2 months ago

LGBTQ and Christianity: Can they coexist (part 2)

This is coming from a conservative-ish, 19 year old brown dude.

For the Christians who go around gay bashing and telling our LGBT brothers and sisters that they’re irredeemable—SHUT UP!

they just want to be loved and accepted as well. Yes, All sin is sin, but doesn’t mean we’re without our own faults as well.

you think that people will come to the faith like this? Through fear? You’re driving them away.

God loves all, but is He PLEASED with us all? Big difference. That applies to straight people, gay people, trans, theists and atheists alike

think of it this way: you love your friend, but your friend betrays you. You still love that friend, but you’re hurt.

He doesn’t want to let anyone go, but you hateful Christians are hurting people. Are you even trying to get them in the God Squad?

There are three ways to respond to LGBT stuff:

1) keep on sinning! The Bible is wrong!

2) you’re irredeemable. God doesn’t want you. You’re going to hell. See you never, loser!

3) hey friend, I understand you feel this way. I love you and so does God. You’re not irredeemable nor are you a devil. Let me show you a better way to live. It’s one thing to be tempted, another to act.

Just because you have an urge to punch someone doesn’t mean you did. Same thing. Just because you have these thoughts doesn’t mean you automatically are gay, lesbian, bisexual, etc.

Which one are you supposed to pick? 1, 2, or 3?


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1 month ago

one day at a time, kids. i love you and i'm rooting for you. if you have religious trauma, i'm so sorry that Christ was misrepresented. you were in a "religious" home or enviornment. not a Christian home or environment

“Stay close to anything that makes you glad you are alive.”

— Hafiz


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1 month ago

Hi 👋, Are you a religious person?

something like that. if you mean "Love God and love people religious", (James 1:27) yes. may i ask why you ask?

1 month ago

love how you use your platform, god bless you!!!! :3

Thanks for checking my page! Just doing what I can to help! bless you too!

remember boys and girls, you have a gift. No matter how big or small, God can still use it. so my blog in this case is what I do to further God's Kingdom

Remember the parable of the talents in the Bible? You make do with what you have.

so in other words… “size doesn’t matter” lol

2 months ago

Dear Wonder Woman fans, us SuperWonder shippers are not your enemies

this is coming from a Wonder Woman fan, a Superman fan, a Batman fan, a SuperWonder fan and a Clois fan.

you only want the best for Diana, and so do we. And the best is Superman. Not Batman, not Steve trevor, or anyone else. just Superman. Clark for Diana and Bruce for Selena. And how about we have Lois and Steve be put together? Lois’ dad is a general. Steve does some army work and ARGUS/government stuff.

we don’t want to Clark to overshadow Diana. But If you pair her up with Batman, then you know how it will be—-DC will just make Diana the property of Batman because Batman is more popular than Wondy, so people only recognize her as “Batman‘s girlfriend” and nothing more. Superman and Wonder Woman used to call out Batman for his bat$hit but nowadays they just tolerate everything he says because he’s Batman.

DC already massacred Superman’s character. He used to be the leader of the Justice league in the 80s right before he died, but then after Bruce Timm showed up, the DCU became the BCU (Batman Centered Universe)

post Bruce Timm and Frank Miller (no hate on them but stop pandering) Superman became all brawn and not brain, all other heroes’ IQ’s are reduced whenever they’re in a 10 foot radius of Batman, and all the ladies gave their attention to Batman—Including our girl Diana, who is completely out of character in the DCAU Justice League cartoons. she is NOT desperate for any man’s attention in the comics.

tell me, ladies and gentlemen, would you want Diana—-a self respecting Amazon—-to be with Batman?

Batman—-the guy who talks down to his teammates and always acts like he’s better than everyone, is ready to take you and your friends down in a heartbeat but is unwilling to end those who have no interest in repenting (jonkler), doesn’t trust you, and treats everyone like his pawn?

Yeah… exactly… don’t be blinded by the cool gadgets and the dark mysterious aura and the fact that he gets girls (they only want him for his looks and money. They don’t actually love him. Matthew 5:28.)

people always make this lame excuse that DC puts them together because of their similar powers, costumes, and popularity.

If you can’t see Supes and Wondy past their powers, then you’re just like Lex Luthor and Steve Trevor. They only saw them for their powers and costumes as many others do.

“They aren’t people at all. They are power. Unpredictable, horrendous power, and nothing more.” -Lex Luthor, Superman/Wonder Woman #5

“I realize that the two of you were meant for each other. Matching costumes. Matching cost powers. Felt like fate. And as weird as it might sound, I found that comforting. You made each other happy.” -Steve Trevor, Superman #48

Fans also say that Wonder Woman and Superman need a human love interest (Batman or Steve) to “ground them.”

Lois GROUNDS Superman? Steve GROUNDS Wonder Woman?

Isn’t the human thing to “love and be loved? To serve God and serve others?” Regardless of color, origin, and background?

Would that not apply to both Supes and Wondy too? They were loved by their parents, loved the  people around them, were hurt and bullied, learned to find their place in the world, and were taught by their parents to love the people they shared this messed up rock with and to help others. And this was BEFORE Lois and Steve.

Supes and Wondy are each other’s equals—-emotionally, physically, mentally, spiritually. They know what it’s like to live in a world made of cardboard.

But they also share the same goals and optimism—to better the world and end crime and all that through love and compassion. Not Arkham-style beatdowns.

Even the creators for Superman (Jerry Siegel and Joe Shuster) and Wonder Woman (William Marston) said that they’re perfect for each other. Supes’ creators even said that Lois was never supposed to end up with Superman.

Also, modern steve and Lois is literally everything what Diana and Clark were back in the OG comics. Diana wants Kal, Clark, and Superman, and Clark wants Wonder Woman and Diana.

In the older comics, Clark and Diana were the butt the joke in their own comics (nothing changed now)—-their love interests only wanted their superhero identities. Then DC gave their dynamics to Lois and Steve for whatever reason.

Besides, Lois literally flirted with other men (yes, Batman included. See Batman: Hush) and made Clark jealous…in front of Superman. She even cheated on Superman with Jeb Friedman WHILE SHE WAS ENGAGED. Is that what you want for our boy in blue? 

how about we have Lois and Steve be put together? Lois’ dad is a general. Steve does some army work and ARGUS/government stuff.

I hope you can see things from our perspective. We love Superman, Wonder Woman, and Superman and Wonder Woman.

thanks for reading. God bless and happy SuperWonder shipping!

P.S. (This is coming from a formerly bi person, not important in this context):Also, i don’t mean to force anything on anyone, but we have various types of evidence for biblical events, if anyone is interested. I also found ways to combat lust, if anyone is interested. (I’m talking archaeological evidence, miracles caught live, arguments against evolution, divine revelation, science, cosmology, fulfilled prophecy, evidence for the Bible outside of the Bible, God’s work in people’s lives, etc.)


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1 week ago

I don't really agree with everything you say regarding things about lgbt+ (specifically, saying being gay is a temptation more than just who a person is? It's 1:30 am and i did read a bit of your stuff but not all of it so I'm incredibly sorry if I misinterpreted it)

but I do appreciate you aren't being homophobic about things or shaming gay people. I believe in God but have a really different view on a lot of things so I don't exactly fit in a section but I do have an issue with people using God to be hateful and you don't do that which i really appreciate.

I have read over a few of your posts regarding porn, and you bring up good points on how women are treated in that industry.

I just wanted to come in and say that despite not really agreeing with *everything*, I can appreciate your efforts and the difference you can make on some people's life with wearing your heart on your sleeve.

God bless you 🙏

thanks so much for the kind words and for responding! I like hearing from people, both critical feedback and constructive criticism—-st least they know about me lol.

thank you for saying you disagree with me. I think it’s important to have friends who believe differently than you—-it’ll clear up common misconceptions, and people can learn to compromise without fully abandoning their beliefs or values (but sometimes just because someone believes something, that doesn’t make it right!)

as for the gay stuff—-being gay isn’t all you are or meant to be. Don’t let the world define you—-let Jesus Christ define you.

As a formerly bi kiddo, I get it—-trying to hide yourself from the world that hates you and mocks you. Christians and gays have more in common than we think.

I still have fleeting thoughts from time to time about lusting for others (checking out or mentally undressing others) and thoughts about men specifically, but I don’t consider myself bi or anything like that.

now, is being gay wrong? Sort of, but that doesn’t give anyone the right to hate anyone (I’m talking to you, homophobes. They’re human too. That want to love and be loved! To be held on those lonely nights. You ding dongs)

it’s one thing to be tempted, but it’s another to act. You can say someone’s attractive, but it’s what you do with that thought—-do you entertain it or do you say “go to hell! I’m with God! I don’t do this $hit anymore!”

see the difference? That’s the whole “hate the sin, love the sinner” motto. Unfortunately, SOME Christians interpret that as “hate the sin, hate the sinner.” And I deeply apologize for that.

thanks for reading and checking my blog! God bless YOU, kind human!

1 month ago

I’d also like to add these. some of these overlap with the other list above and some of my mentions are a bit of a stretch as they don't show Supes and Wondy together, but whatever. we'll milk our ship.

Superman: The Doomsday Wars #1

The Brave and the Bold #7

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New 52

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Action Comics #10

Superman #13 (their kiss in JL #12 is referenced), 14 (their kiss in JL #12 is seen), 15, 16, 17, 19 (you'll like this one), 43 (WW seen in a couple panels. SM and WW not seen together, though), 45 (WW alluded to. not seen)

Batman/Superman #4, 11 (Superman not present)

Superman Annual #3: Savage Dawn

Post New 52

Wonder Woman #3 (Superman mentioned), 7, 16 (Clark appears in back up story but SM and WW aren't seen together)

Future State: Immortal Wonder Woman #1

Action Comics #1000, 1018 (shared panel(s))

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Elseworlds

The Dark Knight Returns

The Dark Knight 3: The Master Race #4 (our boy and girl aren't seen together, but they appear in the comic)

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i'll add more when i get more comics lol. God bless and thanks for reading

An Updated List of Superman/Wonder Woman Crossovers/Romance

Thanks to user Xarek at Comicbookresources, the list of moments for Superman/Wonder Woman has been further updated.

SUPERMAN / WONDER WOMAN RELATIONSHIP CHECKLIST 1.3 ————————————————– Action Comics 598, 600, 754, 761, 781. All-new Collector’s Edition: Superman vs Wonder Woman C-54 (1978) The Adventures of Superman (1988) 435,440,522,628,642,643. The Adventures of Superman Annual 06 Superman 80-page Giant 2 (1999). Superman Batman 9-13,18 Superman’s Girlfriend - Lois Lane 93, 136. Superman v2 05, 07, 17, 118, 156, 165, 173, 661. Superman v1 241 (1971) Superman v1 Annual 11 (1984) Superman - Distant Fires (1998) Superman - Red Son (2003) 1-3. Wonder Woman v1 131 (one panel), 300 (1983) Wonder Woman v2 8, 15, 16, 50, 61, 88, 112, 125, 126, 140, 141, 142, 162, 170-176, 195, 212, 219, 220, 226. Wonder Woman v2 Annual 2 (1989) Wonder Woman - Spirit of Truth (2001). World’s Finest v1 (1971) 204 All-Star Batman and Robin 5 DC Comics Presents 9, 32 (1981), 76. DC - The New Frontier (2004) 1-6. JLA - A League of One (2002). JLA - Midsummer’s Nightmare (1996) 1-3. JLA - Our Worlds at War JLA - Act of God (2001) 1-3. JLA - Created Equal (2000) 1-2. JLA - Riddle of the Beast (2003). Justice League of America v1 1 (1960), 69 (1969), 143 (1977), 170 (1979) Justice League of America v1 Annual 6 (two panels - 1992) JLA v3 83, 96, 101-106. JLA v4 0, 25, 26, 31. Legends of the DCU (2000) 30-32 Trinity (2003) 1-3 JLA - Secret Files and Origins 01. JLA - Seven Caskets. JLA/JSA: Secret Files & Origins 1 (2003) JSA - Thy Kingdom Come 1-3 TPB (2009) (Includes: Kingdom Come Special - The Kingdom (2008)) The Kingdom (1999) 1-2 Kingdom Come (1996) 1-4 The Dark Knight Strikes Again (2002) 1-3 Countdown Presents: The Search for Ray Palmer - Red Son (2008) Teen Titans v3 Annual (2006) 01 JSA 06, 11, 17, 22 New52 Era ———- Action Comics (2014) 31, 34 (one panel). Justice League - Gods and Monsters 1, 3, 4, 5, 6, 8, 9 Earth2 1 Forever Evil 3, 7 (one panel) Injustice: Gods Among Us - Year One 4, 6, 9, 25, 29. Injustice: Gods Among US - Year Two 4. Injustice: Gods Among Us - Year Three 15, 24. Superman (2011) 14 (one panel), 15, 19, 20 Superman - Doomed 1 (2014). Superman/Wonder Woman (2013-2016) 1-9, 11, 12, 13, 14, 17, 18, 19, 25, 28. Superman/Wonder Woman Annual 2 (2016) Superman/Wonder Woman Futures End (2014) Justice League (2011) 3, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15 Justice League International Annual 1 (2012) Justice League of America (one panel - 2013) Young Romance 1 (2013) DC Universe vs. Masters of the Universe (2013) 03


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2 months ago

Superman and Superwoman vs SuperWonder

this is coming from someone who enjoys Batman, Superman, Wonder Woman, (Clois) Superman and Lois while also being a SuperWonder shipper at heart

I find it a bit hypocritical that people are going crazy over Lois Lane getting superpowers when they’re also the ones who say (cheating) Lois “grounds” Clark and their relationship is special by having no powers.

They’re going berserk over Superman and Wonder Woman getting together yet once (cheating) Lois Lane gains powers. It’s literally just Superman and Wonder Woman’s dynamic all over again.

People always say that if Superman and Wonder Woman get together, their values are gonna change and they’re just gonna be unstoppable tyrants on earth because of their powers.

if you can’t see Supes and Wondy past their powers and they’re matching costumes you’re just like Lex Luthor and Steve Trevor. I mean DC themselves said that they are more than just their powers. They want to work together to save the Earth long way—-they both have something to fight for….together. (see the ultimate guide to Wonder Woman)

“They aren’t people at all. They are power. Unpredictable, horrendous power, and nothing more.” -Lex Luthor, Superman/Wonder Woman #5

“I realize that the two of you were meant for each other. Matching costumes. Matching cost powers. Felt like fate. And as weird as it might sound, I found that comforting. You made each other happy.” -Steve Trevor, Superman #48

Don’t be blinded by nostalgia. Clark was raised by HUMAN parents, loved by HUMANS and aliens, and loved HUMANS and aliens alike. To say that he needs a HUMAN in order to understand humans is a bit disrespectful to everyone else who poured into Clark’s life (including DC’s precious batgod).

Isn’t the human thing to do is to love and be loved? To serve God and serve others Regardless of color, origin, and background?

Would that not apply to both Supes and Wondy too? They were loved by their parents, loved the  people around them, were hurt and bullied, learned to find their place in the world, and were taught by their parents to love the people they shared this messed up rock with and to help others. And this was BEFORE they met Lois and Steve.

Also, modern steve and Lois is literally everything what Diana and Clark were back in the OG comics. Diana wants Kal, Clark, and Superman, and Clark wants Wonder Woman and Diana.

In the older comics, Clark and Diana were the butt the joke in their own comics (nothing changed now)—-their love interests only wanted their superhero identities. Then DC gave their dynamics to Lois and Steve for whatever reason.

to sum it up, they literally made Lois into Wonder Woman. Congratulations.

why not put Lois and Steve together?  Lois Lane, whose dad was a General, be paired up with Steve Trevor, who works for the US military and ARGUS? or Lois and Lex? They both have matching initials and both are ambitious and shove everyone down who get in front of what they want. They both are power hungry try to be top dog.

Also, (this is coming from a formerly bi person, not important in this context): i don’t mean to force anything on anyone, but we have various types of evidence for biblical events, if anyone is interested. I also found ways to combat lust, if anyone is interested. (I’m talking archaeological evidence, miracles caught live, arguments against evolution, divine revelation, science, cosmology, fulfilled prophecy, evidence for the Bible outside of the Bible, God’s work in people’s lives, etc.)


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2 months ago
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