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Happy dating! 👩🏻‍🦰♥️🤴♥️👸

This might be a little silly question but how exactly do we start seeing someone and tell them were poly?

I myself am not in any relationship atm never were, but I feel like If I were to get into one I should tell my s/o, how do you exactly do that?

(Of course there is a chance I'll be the one joining a polycule but still i would like to know how to tell someone intrested in me that)

So general advice is, "the sooner the better" and I tend to agree. Having to break up a relationship of months or years over a fundamental incompatibility here hurts and might even make the other person feel lied to 😬

How depends on what this relationship looks like prior. I just put it in my dating profile with I'm using an app 🔥 to find people. Saves the drama of having to say it myself, because people that aren't interested just swipe away.

If you're friends first, I would handle it as telling a friend. I've always had the types of friendships where I can text "yo I know i haven't dated anyone but I think I'm poly??" to them at a quarter till midnight and have them respond "1 how could you possibly know (genuine question) but 2 heyyy congrats that's sick". If that's not your situation, your mileage may vary, but I still think that's the better way to go than asking them out first and then opening yourself up to a second possible point of rejection by only telling them you're poly after.

If its someone you met IRL and you're flirting a bit but you're not really dating and you're not really friends so you're not sure what you're doing❓That to me is the hardest place to tread. I have traditionally gotten to a "so what are we" point and then if we agree we're something romantic, I respond that I'm stoked but I do wanna be clear ahead of time that I'm poly. Otherwise, end of the first date (if you want a second) is a safe bet. Just a "this went really well, but I do want to make sure we're on the same page📑 about what we want" and make it part of that discussion along with anything else that falls into that category.

I hope that helps!! Happy dating! 💌

Knowing! 👩🏻‍🦰♥️🤴♥️👸

poly fluff alphabet ˗ˏˋ ꒰ 🍊 ꒱

a = affection; is anyone more overly affectionate than the others? when it comes to physical vs verbal, who prefers what?

b = bed; what’s the sleeping situation like? are there regular sleeping arrangements - does anyone like to sleep alone?

c = comfort; when someone’s feeling down, how do the rest look after them?

d = dates; what do dates look like? who usually plans them, or are is it a group affair?

e = events; who drags everyone else to their family/friends’ events?

f = fights; are arguments something that happen often? what are they over, and how are they resolved?

g = getting together; how did it all come about? were there any pre-existing relationships between them?

h = hobbies; does anyone share any hobbies/passions? how do they include the rest of their partners in them?

i = in sickness and in health - when someone falls ill, who’s the carer and who’s the germaphobe? is there anyone that resists being looked after?

j = joker; who’s got the best sense of humour? do they like to tease and banter with everyone else?

k = knowing; who can read their partners like a book? is there anyone who’s got their walls up, even around their partners?

l = lavish; is there anyone who really likes to treat their partners/show them off? how do the rest tend to react - who revels in it, and who’s made shy by it?

m = memories - is anyone more on the sentimental side?

n = nights; what’s the nighttime routine like when they’re all together?

o = open; how open is everyone with one another?

p = pda; what’s pda like with them? is there anyone who loves it, and anyone who’s less fond of it? what actions/words does it manifest as?

q = quiet; who prefers to spend their time with their partners out and about, and who likes to spend it at home?

r = romantic; is anyone a bit of a sap for their partners?

s = sharing; is there anyone who’s particularly territorial of their partners?

t = terms of endearment; nicknames! who’s crazy on them, and who do they make cringe? what’re the go-to’s?

u = urge; who’s the most impulsive? who do they loop into their plans, and who entertains their antics?

v = vacations; how do holidays go? are they big exotic trips, or the occasional staycation?

w = worthy; how are insecurities handled? is anyone more self-conscious than the others?

x = xoxo; who checks up on their partners a lot when they’re apart? do they call, or are texts enough to make them feel close?

y = yearn; who misses their partners the easiest (ie, calls them to hear their voices when all they’ve done is run to the grocery store)?

z = zealous; who was especially eager in their pursuit of the relationship? was anyone more reserved in their want for it?

Repeat every single day!

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The point! 👩🏻‍🦰♥️🤴♥️👸

Address the cause 👩🏻‍🦰♥️🤴♥️👸

Living a lie 👩🏻‍🦰♥️🤴♥️👸

Learn 👩🏻‍🦰♥️🤴♥️👸

Love is abundant! 👩🏻‍🦰♥️🤴♥️👸

Bed arrangements 👩🏻‍🦰♥️🤴♥️👸

Thoughtful 👩🏻‍🦰♥️🤴♥️👸

Encouragement 👩🏻‍🦰♥️🤴♥️👸

Everyday 👩🏻‍🦰♥️🤴♥️👸

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Security comes first from inside of you. Then, if you are very lucky, you will be in a position to find other people who also possess that same sort of security, and build some sort of family or community as a team.

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Polyamships is hosting #MultiamoryMarch2023 💞

We’re happy to reblog any polyam creations for the month of March from any fandom or from original works. You can use the above prompts if you need a little inspiration, or you can create something in general for a polyamorous ship of any kind. We also have plenty of prompts from past years we’d still love to see fanworks for if they inspire you better. If you use a prompt, please make sure to let us know which prompt you're creating for somewhere on your post.

At us @polyamships and use the tags #MultiamoryMarch and #MultiamoryMarch2023 in the first five tags so we can hopefully see it. If you don’t see us reblog your post within a few days feel free to send us an ask to let us know, or submit it via our googleform here, in case we’ve missed your post or the tags/notifications are being weird.

All ratings are welcome but anything nsfw/triggery should be warned for and behind a read more, as should very long tumblr fic.

We also have an AO3 collection for the event that can be found here and the collection name is 'multiamory_march_works'.

We can’t wait to see what you create for the month, and please do spread the word about the event. ❤️♾️ QPR on the graphic is the abbreviation for Queerplatonic Relationship. And Sedoretu is a poly marriage invented by Ursula K. Le Guin in her science fiction story "A Fisherman of the Inland Sea," which you can find more out about over on its Fanlore page. All the prompts can also be found as text below the read more. Over the next month or two, we will also be doing a number of posts with expanded ideas for each prompt for anyone who needs a little more inspiration than just the one or two word style we have below.

March 1st - V relationship

March 2nd - Supernatural

March 3rd - Games

March 4th - Affection

March 5th - Awakening

March 6th - Pets

March 7th - Language

March 8th - Sick

March 9th - Declarations

March 10th - Convenience

March 11th - Wedding

March 12th - Cuddling

March 13th - Sharing clothes

March 14th - Sedoretu

March 15th - Adoption

March 16th - Sleepover

March 17th - QPR (QueerPlatonic Relationship)

March 18th - Together

March 19th - Art

March 20th - Grief

March 21st - Treasure

March 22nd -Bonding

March 23rd - Forest

March 24th - Apart

March 25th - Unlikely

March 26th - Argument

March 27th - Shadow

March 28th - Teasing

March 29th - Mark

March 30th - Pining

March 31st - Polyam is the norm AU

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My wife has asked me this. My answer was to watch first and then take turns fucking her after he cums. Hopefully we can keep taking turns for several hours!

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What is the Difference Between Polyamory and Swinging?

Swingers have multiple sexual partners but may not develop emotional or romantic connections with their partners. Swingers usually attend sex parties and other events to swap partners. They may have recurring sexual partners, but their focus is not on having romantic relationships.

Polyamorous people, on the other hand, focus on fostering romantic relationships. Polyamorists can also be swingers or attend swinger parties. Swingers are sometimes also polyamorous.

No matter you want to meet like-minded swinger friends or polyamory partners, you can free to install and use 3Fun dating app to date like-minded couples or singles nearby easily.

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What is non-monogamy?

Non-monogamy is an umbrella term. It’s used to categorize any relationship that isn’t monogamous.

So, a couple who have an open relationship or a couple who are polyamorous, these are both forms of non-monogamy. It’s important to point out that someone cheating on their partner isn’t non-monogamy. That’s just straight-up cheating. For this term to be applied, both partners have to be in agreement that this is something they want to try and both feel comfortable with it.

The old-fashioned view of monogamy doesn’t work for everyone. Sure, it works for a lot of people, and for some, it’s the only way to go. Some couples find that by going against the societal “norms”, they find a deeper connection and more happiness. Yet, other couples find that it causes a huge amount of stress and anxiety and it just doesn’t work for them.

How to know if polyamory is not right for you:

1.You are choosing polyamory in the hopes of fixing a broken monogamous relationship.

2.The thought of having to consider, spend time with, and commit to multiple people feels exhausting.

3.Anything outside of monogamy feels "unnatural" to you.

4.You haven't spent time self-reflecting and understanding your triggers, insecurities, and past trauma relating to love and relationships.

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...and we love you♥️

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Always be ♥️ open....love thy neighbor

Our journey into polyamory...

This could be you...

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Love unconditionally❤

I never quite thought of it (or felt it) quite that viscerally, but this is 90% of my personal intimacy philosophy, in a nutshell (albeit without the eye stabbing or conflation of expectation and hope). Love is not transactional; it is autotelic.

(As a side note, another key distinction, in my mind: reciprocity vs. mutuality. I do not believe that desiring mutuality of loving sentiment is antithetical to autotelic love — unlike acts/expressions of “love” with the objective of eliciting reciprocity in terms of actions.)

🤴...am always healing in the dark!

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A moment to check our emotional defence!

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