Talking About The Situation

talking about the Situation

before i say anything, i think it’s really weird to go off of pure speculation and subtle hints. also, its fucking weird to speculate about someone’s abusive relationship no matter the circumstances! what happened to Not doing that? not only is it Insanely fucking disrespectful but it is on the line of breaking multiple boundaries and intruding on people’s privacy. yes i feel incredibly bad for shelby but everyone and i mean Everyone made it about wilbur just to start a drama train. it ALSO is just incredibly weird and embarrassing! if she didn’t namedrop who are we to speculate about her abuser. i get being angry but WHY did everyone immediately jump onto it being about some british dude . jesus christ? she didn’t say his name for a reason, and it’s obvious what would happen if she did end up saying his name.

i can’t believe i have to say this, but im not taking anyones side in this (obviously i feel bad for shubble, shes a victim). but we took the spotlight entirely off of her when she needed it, hell, she even poured her heart out, only for people to make it about wilbur-fuckin-soot for whatever reason. because theres subtle hints? guess what! there’s other guys who do that! all of the stuff she mentioned? other people do that!

i do get being cautious of supporting a abuser, but it’s all of speculation and people who have been known to hate wilbur. also, people who also been known to trample all over ccs boundaries with no regard.

again, im not defending wilbur, lets just be sensible here and think about this. hes not the only option here. im also aware of zoes tweet, and i do take that into consideration. but lovejoy has other members, do they not? she could’ve have had different reason for leaving. these people who are speculating about shelbys abuser obviously do not give a shit, and only care about clout. if they cared, they wouldnt do this. they wouldn’t immediately play detective about her abuser.

also, it’s incredibly parasocial! you do not fucking know these people!

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3 years ago

No, because I'm actually pissed about this shit.

I'm (sadly) an American citizen, which means that throughout my kindergarten (and possibly first and second, but certainly not third, fourth, and all after) year, every morning, we would do the Pledge of Allegiance. This was very normal for me in my early school years, except some very odd things I just learned today.

I'm currently being online schooled, I was in my history class and the topic of religion in schools came up. From what we were told, most private school are allowed to do religious practices, such as praying, public schools are not. It then got me thinking, if public schools aren't allowed to do religious practices, why is God even mentioned in the Pledge of Allegiance?

I never even remembered the damn thing until today, and it was so random. I was curious though, so I asked my teacher. She told us that the Pledge of Allegiance never had anything to do with God up until it was added in during The Red Scare. She even said that yes, most if not all, schools do the Pledge, but they allow people to not participate, whether it was because of the God part or not...

We were never allowed to not participate in the Pledge of Allegiance.

It got me thinking deeper. How many people have to stand and do that shit who are extremely uncomfortable with it? In fact, I had a friend in kindergarten who had recently came in from China, none of us understood religion at all at the time sure, but that means none of us were aligned by a religion, unless we were forced into church by parents. Besides, this friend was Chinese, why should she have to do the Pledge, it's not her native home and she was too young to fully understand that she even moved so far from home.

What about my Native American friend? Sure, I knew her when we didn't do the Pledge, but if she was moving public schools due to doster families, she surely would have done them at some point. Why should she have had to do it? She didn't know anything of God as far as I'm aware, not to mention that she's Native American, she has no reason to respect this place, because whites took the land from the Native Americans. So, was she too forced to participate?

The mere thought of this kind of things feels unconstitutional, to be honest. After all, that's forcing a belief unto an knowing victim who's too young to even understand half the words in the Pledge and is even removing free will, because if a kid doesn't want to participate, they shouldn't have too, but my school didn't give us a choice... it just feels very, very wrong.


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5 years ago
So Henlo Fello Sinners 

so henlo fello sinners 

2 years ago

Update to the realmeowbah twitter situation: (te// necrophilia, cringe, death) "i dont support necrophilia, be nice and kawaii, i am just supporting the dead youtuber". .....No, you're supporting necrophilia because you posted "haha he's dead lol now i get to fuck his corpse".... how is that "not supporting necrophilia"?

When i read the tweet, all I read was "oh dont cancel me uwu im just an innocent smol beanu who said id fuck a dead body of a famous youtuber who died of cancer but im not being necrophilic because im just a kawaii beanu who can do no wrong uwu owo"

I'm trying so hard not to say anything offensive, but I'm cringing so hard and probably close to puking up all my organs like a fucking frog. I can't believe people like this exist, I just can't believe it.

PLEASE. For the love of whatever fucking god you believe in, GO REPORT THEM. PLEASE. This is ridiculous!


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1 year ago

just gonna type here and get shit off my mind.

i wanna be completely transparent. im 100% going to get harrassed for what i have to say, but i just need to talk.

in regards to what's been revealed about Shelby's situation and Wilbur's involvement.

i've been a big fan of Wilbur since I joined the DSMP fandom and continued to be as I grew older. he's someone i strongly related to heavily due to mental health struggles. i love his characters and his storylines, even if they were silly sometimes. i loves his relationships with those close to him, like with Tommy and Quackity especially. i love his music a lot, Lovejoy is my favorite band, and is probably the only music i never really get tired of.

this is why im not ready to just suddenly drop him. deep down i still really like him and have related to him which is exactly why it is *so* difficult for me to just suddenly stop everything related to him.

on the other hand, i've known about Shelby since i was young. i watched a lot of her stuff with NewScapePro (lots of the undertale and fnaf roleplay stuff) and she was always one of my favorites, though i hadn't really stuck with her as i grew up. when i heard about her situation, i felt a lot of empathy with her, as i also went through abuse (mental and emotional, though).

where my struggle really starts is that i want to support Shelby, but i cant find it in myself to just completely stop my interest with Wilbur. it doesnt help that Wilbur has been one of my primary comfort people for the past few years, he was one of the people i chose to watch or listen to when i was sad.

im internally conflicted. i KNOW i should stop supporting Wilbur, especially because i've been a victim too, but it's so difficult for me, especially when my current hyperfixtiations involve him primarily.

im not ready to just let go. i should do it, but i physically can't. it's so damn hard.

i desperately want to believe in him, believe that he can and will change, but i know how abusers work. i believe in him but i know i shouldnt, and it is frustrating me.

i love him (in a way one would love any other celebrity, obviously) but i also hate him right now, but i also dont.

im not a bad person for not being ready to let go yet... but what happens if i'm never ready? what if im only ready once i find a different hyperfixtiation?

what's going to happen now? will Wilbur even be okay? (i shouldnt wonder about it but i do)

im in a very tough spot. there are so many thoughts in my head that are worsening my already low point in mental and emotional stability.

im gonna be seen as a bad person no matter what i choose to do.

which is why im just choosing to not let it change what im doing right now. maybe once things calm down, maybe i can figure things out more and i may do something different, but for right now, im not going to change anything. i will change things when im ready too. people may not like that, but it's what i need. it's what's best for me right now.

i hope Shelby will be able to fully recover and heal. i hope that Wilbur can genuinely change for the better. i hope that those closest to Wilbur are doing okay too.

quick edit because i forgot to mention this:

Wilbur's mental health is NOT excuse for abuse. Wilbur's twitter post also wasn't great.

but im also choosing to keep in mind that 1. he doesnt owe the internet an apology. he only owes the victim(s) apologies. we are not entitled to an apology.

2. while it isnt an excuse, mental health still contributes to abuse which is why i still believe that if he really tries, he can improve himself.

im not forgiving him for what he did, but im still struggling with my thoughts and emotions, which is why i cant just drop everything.

i hope that this clears things up a bit more.

2 years ago

DEAR HORROR ENTHUSIASTS...

I work at my local Haunted House, this year, I agreed to be in a room with one of our new volunteers. The room is just a living room set-up. There's a fake, charred skeleton with some creepy mask on it, it sits on the couch which is kinda old, and movable. There's also a wooden chair that one of our managers designed to be motion tracked, so when people walk past, it goes off. Thhere's also a painting on the wall, a few other decorations, and the hidden door has a shelf attached, along with a home video camera on top of it, so it blends in, and it takes a bit longer for people to get through the room and what not.

The reason I bring it up, is because I NEED IDEAS! Give me your ideas, please! I'm not the most talented with make-up, but there are other people around to help too, I am okay with special effects, there is blood, and costumes to pick from, and I do have a few clothes here at home.

We have a little less than 2 hours to do make-up, (they open at 4 for actors to do make-up and dress up, etc. and this year, we have a strict rule to go to our rooms by 6:40. We start letting people in at 7.) so I need something I could do quickly, but it may be possible to do some make-up at home.

So, with all that... give me your ideas! (please)


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4 years ago

Birth of Noir qwq

Inspired by the song A Million Dreams qwq

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6 months ago

you know what annoys me?

this stupid video i keep getting recommended on youtube, called "we don't talk about dan schneider" my first point is: why? because he essentially publicized his own fetishes through literal children? what makes him worse than any other pedophile or serial killer? why do we talk about the zodiac killer, jack the ripper? why talk about dr**m or kr*s tyson? why talk about any other criminals, like d.b. cooper or the Columbus high school shooters? this leads right into my second point: we talk about these examples to not repeat the past. what makes schn**der any different from these people, that makes it horrible to talk about? nothing. because we continue to tell these stories because it's a part of human history and we talk about it to not repeat it. if we dont talk about these cases, the past will be repeated, we will be blind to all the signs that we now recognize as predatory.

don't say "dont talk about them". talk about them. warn people. show them the warning signs. dont forget about what he's done, so we can help people in the future. stop living in a circle. live in a line. don't repeat the past.

3 years ago
Have you ACTUALLY read FF1970 or not? | StrawPoll.com
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What's your opinion? Vote now: Yes!, No!, What even is that?...

I have a very important question...

For context: I haven't read FF1970, mostly because I'm not quite ready for the sad ending, but I do know the ending nonetheless. I want to read it and I know I should, but I'm deeply afraid to start it because I know what will happen...

It got me thinking, is this only me? Am I the only person avoiding it because of this?


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