Thatconfusedcactus-blog

Female Sherlock and John. Bc why not.

I find it crazy how guys are such control freaks and perfectionists. They want girls to look like Kim K without makeup on and will drop a girlfriend as soon as she gets the SLIGHTEST imperfection. I don't even think they love girls. They love this romanticised, porn filled version of girls. They don't actually love real girls. Lesbians on the other hand? You get the picture.

Men hate women. They just like femininity. They have high heel fetishes, and silicone-shaped-like-breasts fetishes, and red lipstick fetishes. 

Femininity is sexualized, packaged and sold. And it’s bullshit, it hurts us, it harms women. So I’m beyond fucking done with people who think feminine=female. 

Femininity is wrong, hurtful, degrading. On the other hand, women are strong, amazing, intelligent, valuable. 

Beyond all that, only women can understand and respect women in the deep level we do. Lesbian love makes the world go around tbh.

/Mod A

The Unluckiest Zircon in the Galaxy

honestly like lesbian culture is so iconic…it’s all stuff like farming and sitting on the couch and respecting each other

If anyone thought I’m not still a bitter pile of salt, guess again. 

You don’t have to love your body

as much as i appreciate raven learning to live for herself and not needing anyone to keep her warm at night she is the one character who has actively searched for romantic partners (finn, bellamy, w*ck) throughout the show. my girl just wants to be loved and there is no weakness in wanting that. i can’t believe we had sea mechanic, a healthy, supportive relationship, taken away from us like that. we were ROBBED. 

⛓🚬🍺"lesbians congregating" New Orleans, 1988 #bless #lesbianscongregate #neworleans #lesbianculture #dykebar #the80s #pleatsplease

My goal isn’t to make people feel beautiful. It’s to make them realize that feeling beautiful doesn’t mean jack shit. Beauty fades. Beauty is not reliable. Beauty is subjective and fluctuating. You take up the space you want and say “I might not think I’m beautiful. Hell, I might be ugly to some people, but I still deserve to be here, to be loved, to do what I want.” I don’t think I’m beautiful at all, but I try not to stop that from getting in the way of living my life. That’s a much more powerful thought than “I’m beautiful too.” Don’t be afraid to be ugly and stop holding yourself to impossible standards in public. Ignore the male gaze. Ignore all gazes. Focus on yourself and what you’re trying to accomplish. 

ellen and portia calling out kate mckinnon ( dressed as ellen ) to close out the show