Latest Posts by octanaut - Page 4

“that’s right, princess. fight back. make it difficult… give me a reason to get rough.”

You sound really hot, I love hairy men

"Hot" might be a stretch, but if I'm your shot of whiskey, then that makes me happy for you!

tell me on anon what you'd never tell me off anon

No one is actually gonna do it but fuck it.

Any time means ANY time.

Dishes can wait.

Dinner can wait.

Dick doesn't wait.

A relaxing afternoon in the kitchen. #relationship

It's nice to have someone to relax with.

YESSSSSSSS

Okay, but the teasing continues there... acting like I can't find it, so I just start kissing and nibbling the lips, the thighs, the mound above... anywhere but right... where... you want... makes the inevitable conclusion so much more satisfying for both of us.

men who spread your pussy with their thumbs whenever they go down on you so they can lap at your clit better 😔

..... listen here, Dad jokes are a time-honored tradition. This smacks of cultural appropriation.

Choking Safety

I've been seeing some kind of scare-mongering type posts going around about choking during sex, so I wanted to address how to approach choking in a safe way. Choking is not a 0 risk activity, but it is also not so dangerous that you will just randomly die either. Anyone who does martial arts will confirm that thousands of teenagers are being successfully trained to choke each other safely (for self defense) every day! There's no reason you can't learn to do it too.

First you should be familiar with some basic anatomy of the neck and throat:

The carotid veins on both sides of the neck and the trachea/windpipe in the center are the most important things to be aware of. If you want to enjoy the psychological element of having someone's hands around your neck with relatively little risk, you can do "choking" play that avoids putting any pressure on those arteries or the trachea. As with all choking play, safety is highest when both parties are fully sober. I'm not actually sure if there are people out there who are into having the windpipe or trachea blocked. This tends to hurt like fuck and cause an autonomic choking response. You'll know if you went too far center because generally the bottom will be like "WTH". I don't know if there is a way to do this play safely or not as I don't have experience with it. It probably carries some risk of the trachea collapsing which would be a hospital trip for sure. Most choking play is done with the intention of cutting off the blood supply to the brain by applying pressure to both the left and right carotid arteries. This type of choking is not really "breath play" because of the way it works (though many people refer to it that way.) This creates a pleasant light headed feeling, but is also where the higher risk comes in. It often doesn't take long for a person to lose consciousness once these arteries are blocked, often less than 10 seconds. Sometimes getting completely choked out is the goal, sometimes not. Either way, the top has to pay very very careful attention to every aspect of their bottom's body language. Once you realize that a person has lost consciousness, the choking must stop immediately. Because of this: the most dangerous way to do this kind of play is alone. (hence all the auto-erotic asphyxiation deaths you hear about) It goes without saying that intoxication also dramatically increases the risks. It's not recommended to lose consciousness this way on a regular basis. It's just not good for your brain to repeatedly go through, especially in rapid succession. Generally, the more time spaced out between this type of play: the better. Though some people may have medical conditions that make the risk higher, as long as you stop choking when you reach the desired headspace, this play is approachable. Anyone who's REALLY into the idea but feels unsure or scared, I highly recommend taking a few martial arts classes. MMA guys do this to each other all the time! For sports! The key is just stopping at the right time. There are two main ways to go about blocking the carotid arteries. The main one used in martial arts and self defense is the rear naked choke.

This type of choke is incredible effective at choking someone out quickly and easily. The forearm and the bicep are squeezing each artery until the desired effect is achieved. The risk here is how quickly it works in combination with not being able to have a visual on your bottom's facial response. When someone loses consciousness they will go limp and begin twitching somewhat. This is normal, and you should stop immediately if you notice those signs. The more common method of choking play during sex is what looks more like typical choking. Facing your partner, using both hands.

You want to find the arteries with both hands, and use the meat at the base of your thumbs to apply gradually increasing pressure upwards towards your partner's head. You can keep the thumbs tucked to avoid accidental pressure on the windpipe. (Though this is not required so long as you remember not to apply pressure to the windpipe.) This type of play has a few safety benefits. First, you can see your partner's face so it's more obvious when you can see they've hit a headspace that is desirable. Additionally, it's just a little more difficult to find the arteries and push up on them correctly. If your goal is to get a little light headed without losing consciousness, this is more easily accomplished with this type of choke. However, losing consciousness is still a risk and both partners being fully alert will ensure the lowest risk environment. I know choking play is incredibly popular, even 'vanilla' people participate in this type of play on a regular basis without really knowing the technical details. Most of them don't get seriously hurt...but knowing what you're actually doing with risky play is a base component of risk aware consensual kink. Anyway I hope people find this helpful! Happy choking!!

I want to share something someone told me when I first started out as a dom because it was kind of a lightbulb moment for me as an emotional sadist. At the time I was doing aftercare but I didn't understand what psychologically recovering from a scene really meant. Then someone put it into dom terms and it just sort of clicked. So I thought I'd share in case anyone else needs to hear it.

As a degrader and a sadist it's so hot that some subs will be as pathetic as you want them to be... so don't fuck around with their emotions outside of that, that sub is already literally playing with and altering their emotions for your benefit and pleasure. You're overstressing the emotion muscle if you do and rest is essential to any healthy exercise.

You're not giving their feelings any time to rest and recover if you cause emotional distress outside of playtime and you're not giving them the safety and security to play with their emotions again. If you consistently play with humiliation, degradation, or other forms of psychological sadism, you need to be aware of this and plan accordingly.

Avoid big talks or heavy topics immediately after, and do things that will lift your partner's mood in the days following an intense scene even if their mood doesn't need a lift. While you can't see it, by doing that, you've essentially put an emotional ice pack on a sore muscle.

For physical injuries lift the area affected so it can circulate and heal better. For emotional ones it's the same process, lift their mood so positive feelings can circulate and help the recovery along.

Ladies, it's important to support essential workers.

Be sure to flash a trucker today!

Psychological torture is so much better when it's deeply personal and not just strangers on the internet offering generic harm

Raw enjoyment is always a plus.

There's a delight in watching and listening to a well-spoken, intelligent woman becoming a feral fuck-gremlin, incapable of coherent thought.

Edging her for so long she loses herself and becomes the most disgusting depraved version of herself ❤️

aftercare isn't a kink, it's a requirement

aftercare isn't a kink, it's a requirement

aftercare isn't a kink, it's a requirement

aftercare isn't a kink, it's a requirement

Remember: Reading is sexy.

save a book, spread open a bookworm

I love cnc because it’s just clingy, touchstarved, lonely angels who want to be wanted so bad they need it forced from them. They need to be needed, they need to know that I want them so bad I would hurt them for it. Violate them for it. Break them for it.

At 6'2", towering is not something I intentionally do, but it just sort of happens.

use size kink against me. Tower over me. Wrap your hands around my neck and squeeze hard. Tell me how easy it is to manhandle me. Have your way with me. All while praising me, reminding me how tiny I am compared to you.

@babyv1llain

I take long walks in the forest.

VERY enthusiastic walks.

I told you I was going to find you princess.. now look what happened.

Fucking someone you're not supposed to be fucking is some of the best sex you'll ever have

What did you think would happen, strutting around in that little black dress

Me and her after we decided our age gap was just too big 

Any time.

Any place.

No matter who might be near or overhear.

Calm down, it's just a finger or two. No one is looking at us.

Don't move so much, just cum in my hands quietly, as you always do.

For someone so afraid of being seen you really are wet eh?

The way your legs get together, pressing my arm won't stop my fingers sweetie.

Look at my eyes while I make you cum. Let me see that spark of pleasure you feel by being mine.

Aren't you my little pet, my fucktoy?

My fingers are so wet right now. Your panties are soaked. Is that what you wanted? To be touched in public so someone could see you cum because of me?

That's it, this heavy breathing in my chest...

Cum for me, let me hear it...

Such a good girl!