About An Hour Ago, I Was In Walmart Looking For My Conditioner Because Today Is Wash Day For My Hair.

About an hour ago, I was in Walmart looking for my conditioner because today is wash day for my hair. As I’m looking for my product, this older white lady approaches me and she says, “Excuse me, miss. Please don’t be offended by this.” And usually when white people tell me not to be offended, 9 times out of 10, whatever they are about to say is going to be offensive af.

Anyway, she follows it up with, “My husband and I just recently won our custody battle with our foster daughter and she means the world to us. She’s a beautiful African American girl and her hair looks a lot like yours. But I’m afraid because I don’t know what to do with her hair. It’s a lot different from mines and our other children and we are at a total loss. I’ve tried looking up the YouTube videos and my husband went to the braiding shops so they can teach him how to properly braid her hair, but he’s still pretty new and it will be a while before he gets used to it. Do you have any tips you can give me? If you don’t have the time, it’s okay, really! I just needed a little advice because I want her to look beautiful.”

Y’all. swear I almost started crying on aisle 6. So for the last 30 minutes, I spent my time talking to her and what products to use and how to properly detangle and comb her hair with the proper tools and what not to do with natural hair. And I showed her a bunch of easier to follow natural hair tutorials on YouTube and saved them for her. (I also had to create a YouTube account for her so she could save it for later.) but omfg, she was so sweet, and I could tell that she listened to every single thing I had to say and she took little notes on her little notepad.

And what really filled my heart was the fact that her husband actually taking classes from African braiding shops. And she showed me a picture of him wearing a little sweater vest and loafers in a little shop surrounded by beautiful black women showing him how to braid black hair and even the lady he’s braiding on is guiding his hands. And omfg. Bless these old white people and their black daughter who I know have new loving parents because they are willing to step out of their comfort zone just to make her feel and look beautiful.

I really hope our paths cross again one day, Mrs Cicilia. 💖💕

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4 years ago

sam wilson appreciation post.

there’s no one in the mcu more caring, and gentle, and empathetic, and kind. he is the best friend everyone needs. someone who will call you out on your bs. someone who is kind enough and loves you enough to tell you what you need to hear even if you don’t wanna hear it. someone who treats you like family and gives you a place to stay. someone who listens and takes ones feelings into consideration. he’s the one you call one when you’re in trouble and need help.

sam wilson is just a good man. i say it all the time, i know. i can’t help it.

and they way he interacts w everyone in the show just makes my heart explode. he tries to reason with his enemies. john walker deserved nothing more than to rot in cell, but sam still wanted to talk things out. he comforts bucky, yes, but he also tells him what he needs to hear. he’s there for his family and doesn’t leave them behind despite the war he’s fighting against the flagsmashers. he believes in karli. ugh, i could go on and on about this man.

and bucky barnes. let’s talk abt character development for a moment. first off, he smiled genuinely too many this episode. i cry. anyways, the way he recognized his wrong and APOLOGIZED. HE APOLOGIZED. writers and directors always just kinda blow it off and leave the viewers assuming that the characters have made up and that it’s all good. but bucky apologized to sam. that- that is what i’m here for. as a poc that means so much, bc a lot of non poc don’t even make an effort to understand, to try and empathize. he tried. and he did.

lastly. i love this show. i love these men. bucky barnes is beautiful. sarah wilson deserves the world. i wanna take aj and cass out for ice cream. sam wilson was lookin like a snack and servin us lots of beautiful melanin.

yeah, sam wilson is my hero. sam wilson is captain america.

end of the story. goodnight.

5 years ago
I Have To Do Everything I Can To Help The Family.
I Have To Do Everything I Can To Help The Family.
I Have To Do Everything I Can To Help The Family.
I Have To Do Everything I Can To Help The Family.
I Have To Do Everything I Can To Help The Family.
I Have To Do Everything I Can To Help The Family.
I Have To Do Everything I Can To Help The Family.
I Have To Do Everything I Can To Help The Family.
I Have To Do Everything I Can To Help The Family.
I Have To Do Everything I Can To Help The Family.

I have to do everything I can to help the family.

5 years ago
Well Done, Sidney! Well Done, Miss Heywood!
Well Done, Sidney! Well Done, Miss Heywood!
Well Done, Sidney! Well Done, Miss Heywood!
Well Done, Sidney! Well Done, Miss Heywood!

Well done, Sidney! Well done, Miss Heywood!

6 years ago
I Needed To Hear This Today; Maybe Somebody Else Needs To As Well

I needed to hear this today; maybe somebody else needs to as well

5 years ago
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5 years ago
#the Mortifying Ordeal Of Your Crush Seeing You Naked And Then Haunting You Everywhere You Go: The Life
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#the Mortifying Ordeal Of Your Crush Seeing You Naked And Then Haunting You Everywhere You Go: The Life
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#the Mortifying Ordeal Of Your Crush Seeing You Naked And Then Haunting You Everywhere You Go: The Life
#the Mortifying Ordeal Of Your Crush Seeing You Naked And Then Haunting You Everywhere You Go: The Life
#the Mortifying Ordeal Of Your Crush Seeing You Naked And Then Haunting You Everywhere You Go: The Life

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8 years ago

Girls can wear jeans and cut their hair short and wear shirts and boots because it’s okay to be a boy; for girls it’s like promotion. But for a boy to look like a girl is degrading, according to you, because secretly you believe that being a girl is degrading.

Ian McEwan, The Cement Garden (via beautifullitteraryquotes)

It is deep !!!


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7 years ago
Robert Downey Jr.’s Emotional Speech From The Avengers: Infinity War Premiere Vía @entertainmentweekly
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3 years ago

unpopular opinion but i think a lot of the things that people think are “pretentious” aren’t actually pretentious - they just require a little more effort & intentionality on the reader / viewer’s part to understand. but bc we’re so used to mass produced media and instant, consumable content, we’ve come to take for granted that knowledge & information can be instantaneously grasped, digested and absorbed without any real participation or action from us. if people were actually looking to criticise pretentiousness, they would call out the classism & racism of ivory tower intellectualism and its cultural manifestations, not whine about how “inaccessible” media that don’t treat their audience like idiots are

5 years ago

I just think instead of looking at views and reviews, show runners and producers should just come on Tumblr and see how many people collectively care about a show and don’t want it to end. So many of us watch shows that we can’t see on satellite because we don’t have it or don’t live in the place it is airing on something else, something that doesn’t show in the views while it’s on air. It isn’t right for things to get cancelled because of that, especially since we try our hardest to watch. Tumblr is a community of people who watch shows and care, so we should look at that instead.

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