the liberal-idealist view of 'outing' that i often encounter is so deeply unserious -- the act of exposing someone's queerness, opening them up to (often state-sanctioned) social and physical violence, potentially severing their familial and communal ties, in many cases genuinely risking their lives, is conceptualized as an ontological sin because of some metaphysical and intangible violation, rather than being bad because it is an act of violence, and so you get liberals genuinely arguing that it constitutes 'outing' to tell trans women the person they're asking advice from is cis, or to wonder whether a dead person could have been anything other than cis, or to point out that some people are the targets of transmisogyny and some aren't. just a totally useless way to think of the concept, reducing it from language that describes a specific and targeted type of violence to an superstitious ingroup social taboo
we have to stop letting the usa have such control/influence over international politics
for non argies: congress just voted in favor of giving milei delegated faculties
MAN YOU AINT BIG PUP- IM YA BIG BAD BOOTY DADDY INNDIT NON STYOPPUHGH-
I've started mentally describing every instance of delayed gratification, especially when chosen but even when not, (e.g. Seeing a painting from across the art gallery that you think you will especially enjoy, and not walking right to it but instead enjoying the nearer paintings first, or having a delay on your approach to a place you're excited for) as "like edging". I think I might be onto something about the nature of pleasure
ITS TOO EARLY I MISREAD THIS AS "SELL HEROIN"
my "we fired a former moderator who was openly transphobic and taking bribes" aside is raising a lot of questions answered by my "we fired a former moderator who was openly transphobic and taking bribes" aside
every restraurant is a theme restaurant