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“The more he submits to you, and you reward him for it, the more he will want you to dominate, rule and control him. The more he strives to make your endeavors more enjoyable, the more you will naturally desire to “play” tease and torture him in the bedroom. Realize he needs that D&S interaction daily to keep him motivated. Encourage him to communicate his venerating affirmation to you routinely. Gently, Lovingly and Sensuously remind him how much he fundamentally needs that interaction with you. His persistent focus needs to be on meeting Your Needs both inside and outside the bedroom. The more he does this, the more natural it will become to him and the more you will naturally expect and demand it from him. He should get up each morning and mediate on how he can serve you his Queen and how He can Devote himself to you and please you. If you train and program him relentlessly to do this, the rest will take care of itself.”
I just wanted to see how long I could “Keep You" Right on the Edge Studmiffin, I actually Had No Intention of Allowing You to Cum Tonight… We’re Just Cuddling…
Good Boy… You Know - That I Know, Whats BEST for Our Relationship.
Asymmetric Sex...
One of the most surprising aspects of wife led marriage is the asymmetric nature of sex. Few wives can imagine how different their sex life becomes when they assume a position of dominance in the marriage. In most marriages sex is essentially symmetric, or at least idealized as such. When one partner is in the mood, usually the husband, he works to arouse the other or, more commonly, simply initiates sex with, if he is in any way a gentleman, the expectation of mutual satisfaction. But wife led marriage is different… In a wife led marriage, the wife controls sex. Either she allows her husband to indicate an interest, to which she responds positively or negatively, or she reserves the initiation of sex entirely to herself. In either case, the wife is the gate keeper of sex. When she does choose to engage in sex, it is primarily focused on her satisfaction. She expects her husband to bring her to orgasm at least once, perhaps more, before there is any possibility of his own. So every sexual encounter in a wife led marriage arrives at a point where the wife has been satisfied but the husband has not. This makes sense because there is virtually no risk of a healthy husband failing to orgasm during sexual intercourse whereas there is considerable risk that he might before the wife, thus depriving her and ending the intimacy. The wife’s first orgasms, therefore, are achieved by means other than sexual intercourse. The possibilities are endless but usually involve manual or oral stimulation or the use of sex toys. But just as the wife decides when sex occurs, so does she decide how far it proceeds. In particular, she decides whether sex proceeds beyond her first orgasms. As a routine matter, the husband not only has no expectations about when or whether sex will happen but, as well, how far it will proceed when it does. As part of the transformation of the marriage, the wife may be scaling back her husband’s orgasms and, at the same time, increasing her own. How far can this go? Well, let us suppose that you decide to allow your husband an average of one orgasm a week. At the same time, you might indulge yourself each night. That would result in a ratio of 7:1. But you might allow him as few as a couple orgasms a month while you enjoy a quickie in the morning, another after work, and a more intimate and prolonged encounter in the evening. That is a ratio approaching 50:1. These ratios, while interesting, are irrelevant. Once you pass beyond 5:1 there is really no longer any meaningful connection between your orgasms and his, they become entirely different matters: his are a strict matter of discipline, the exact frequency that brings about optimal adoration and obedience while you can enjoy as many as you wish. In fact, the more sexual intimacy, the better for the marriage. That might seem incredible but for the fact that as you become ever more proficient in exercising erotic power in your marriage, your husband begins to derive ever greater happiness from your satisfaction. He will crave that morning quickie as much as you! Needless to say, this extreme asymmetry does not come about overnight. It develops naturally over time so that, gradually, eventually, both of you come to regard wife-centered sex as a normal aspect of wife led marriage…
Thanks to RWDDH
It is up to us as Women, to take Control of our Males. They “NEED” what we Have, and want to be Controlled… (Deep within their Psyche they want to Submit)… So it is up to us, Ladies, To take control of our lives and our relationships; To refuse to spend another day living a second class existence…
Sisters…, We must learn to embrace our Divine Womanhood and Superiority, To Take our Rightful Place as the Goddesses we were Born To Be… All of Womanhood (Rightfully) Desires to be Adored and Devotionally Cherished - But it is our responsibility to take that first step - towards the pedestal we belong on !!!
http://catherinesworld.yolasite.com/resources/LedbyHer%20Gynarchy%20Article.pdf
All Women were born to be Worshipped !!!
As Women, the most beneficial thing we can do for Our Male, is to train him to serve our every need, unconditionally !!!
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With Habitual / Routine Edging and Karezza ”Training” – Males Just Get Hornier - More Subordinate … Subservient…, and Amenable !!!
Program Him Daily (Subliminally), That His Function and Biological “Design" - Is For Your Feminine Exploitation, Gratification & Felicity !!!
Exploit How His Perpetual Virile “Arousal” Makes Him More and More - Servile and Obedient !!!
The Natural Feminine “Dominion” You Have Over Him, Will Grow Stronger Each Day, While you Powerfully Condition & Train His Vulnerable Receptive Psyche…
Hotwife Lifestyle - Understanding Our Man’s Hotwife Fantasy and How to Use That to Our Advantage
The fantasy of having a “Hotwife” is growing, in fact, research shows it is growing at a higher rate than a good majority of the other lifestyle alternatives, including the old staple of “swinging” and the modern “open relationship”. Why is it that a fantasy that revolves around only one part of a relationship – the woman – going out and finding pleasure from another man more intriguing to an increasing number of men than going out and “getting some” for himself?
Basic psychology tells us that men are highly competitive creatures. They have a drive to compete with other males of the species for the best mate – this isn’t so much different than what happens in the animal kingdom. Most men have an innate drive to compete with other men when it comes to the “best mate” or the “most attractive woman”. With this being said, one of the reservations of most women who find out about their husband or partner’s Hotwife fantasy is that he is somehow “weaker” than the rest because he wants to give up his position as your only partner. Is this really true, though? Could the truth lie somewhere within today’s man’s loss of natural competition in everyday life, and a desire to maintain a level of competition after marriage or “monogamy”? Is this weakness, or rather the ultimate confidence?
Cuckholding aside, because this aspect of the fantasy requires a bit more in terms of a “woman led” relationship, and a bit more from the man in terms of a desire for mental sadomasochism, a good majority of men enjoy the idea that they have been able to “capture” the best mate and even when she’s out having amazing physical and emotional experiences with men who may have qualities that actually supersede their own – a better body, a larger cock, youth, more prowess in bed – their woman actually WANTS to come back to them at the end of the night. While most Hotwife-Husbands do get some level of turn-on from the jealousy and the possibility that their Hotwife may actually be enjoying their dates more than they enjoy being “at home”, the overwhelming desire is the competition and the “win” in terms of having a wife who chooses them again and again even after being allowed to go out and have other men.
As Hotwives, we may be the focus of the fantasy, but there is that deeper and more psychological desire of a man who, even after committing to one woman, is able to compete with other males sexually. This is why the desire for “reclaiming” a Hotwife after a date is so strong – it’s actually been scientifically proven that men who are able to reclaim a partner after she has been with someone else have an increase in testosterone levels, which means stronger desire, more powerful erections, longer lasting erections, and an overall stronger sex drive. So, what does this mean for us as Hotwives?
He Enjoys the Jealousy, Go with It
As women we’ve learned that inducing some jealousy can actually be a good thing when it comes to dating – before we’ve found our “person”. We use our female prowess to keep the men who we are seeing guessing…why? Because they seem more interested in us when it seems as though we may not be 100% there. So, if this works in the dating world, why wouldn’t it work once we’re married? In contrast, women typically don’t respond as well, or in the same way to jealousy – we tend to worry, question, and sometimes shut down if we feel that he might be “just not that into us”. Naturally, because of our own feelings on the matter, we tend to avoid making our men jealous once we’ve committed to them, because we, ourselves don’t want to feel as though we’re in constant competition with other, more attractive, sexier, younger, etc., women. Why would we do something to the man that we love that we, ourselves, would hate?
For men, though, and especially those with Hotwife fantasies, jealousy is a big component and tool for us to keep our men hot and bothered. Sometimes just the mere mention of being flirted with by that cute guy at our favorite restaurant, or our interest in the sexy personal trainer at the gym is enough to send our men into a sexual frenzy. It doesn’t take a lot to feed the fantasy. It’s not ALL about dates and recounting how well we got worked over in the bedroom (and how much we loved it), though that is the ultimate turn on for our men, it’s also about the little things – the mention of our interest in someone else, the sexy messages that we send to potential lovers or Bulls, the “tease” of how much we loved what our last Bull did for us and how much we’re looking forward to doing it again. Remember, this ignites the “competition” element of things, which is natural for men.
The More You Enjoy it, the More He Enjoys it
You may be thinking, “But I’m doing it for him, I’m not doing it for myself” (a common theme by A LOT of Hotwives), but in reality, our men WANT us to enjoy our encounters. They want to hear about what this “other guy” did for or to is that sent us over the edge, and yes, they want to hear what we liked better about the “other guy”. I know it seems crazy, because we don’t want to imagine our men, even if we did allow them to be with other women, thinking that their “others” were better, sexier, hotter or had something that we don’t. That’s because we don’t have that “competition drive” like our men do.
Let’s face it, despite what our men tell us – “It’s all about your pleasure” or “I don’t get anything out of it unless you’re enjoying it, because I love you so much” – this isn’t some ultimate “unselfish” thing our men are doing for us. These things come out of their mouths, but what they are really saying is “I want to know that you came three times while he was fucking you, and you STILL want to come home to me”. It’s their kink, and we have to understand it.
So, if you’ve actually taken the step into the world of Hotwifing, you’re going to have to learn how to properly tease your man into believing that, just maybe, your Bull was better than him in some ways. Whenever you think “But I’m only doing it for him”, follow that us with “I’m doing it for him and he WANTS to know that I absolutely enjoyed it”. Find some aspect of your encounter that was mind-blowing, and recount, in great detail exactly what it was that sent you over the edge. This may require a little bit of embellishment, and that’s OKAY…trust me…embellishment is your friend in this situation. Tell your man about your Bull’s amazing cock, how good if felt, how good he tasted, how fantastic he was at oral sex, etc. These are the things that will ramp up that competition streak in your man and make him want to reclaim you with increased vigor and desire.
The More You Want Someone Else, The More Your Man Wants You
Again, you’re playing on the competition and the teasing aspect of things here… The more that you act as if you WANT to be a Hotwife, the more that your husband or partner is going to WANT you. His desire for you is going to skyrocket, his sexual desire for you is going to make it so that he’s ready to chew his own leg off to get you back in bed. I have experienced this firsthand many times…if I am completely honest about an “encounter” and admit to “D” that my Bull was lacking in some way, or I didn’t quite “get there”, he isn’t nearly as turned on as when I tell him about how amazing things were. I don’t like or believe in lying, but I do advocate for being selective and stretching the truth…maybe your lover wasn’t the best at giving oral sex, but maybe he was an amazing kisser, so a good answer would be “he was amazing with his mouth” and leave the rest up for interpretation.
We’re women. We are strong and capable and we are smart. And the truth is, this is a GAME we are playing for and with our husbands/partners, so we need to get our heads into the game. Furthermore, this is an intellectual game, and we need to use our intellects to get to where we want to be. Where do we want to be? We want to have a husband/partner who is absolutely drooling over us, believes we are the ultimate sexual goddess, and in is jealous enough to realize that in order to “compete” they will need to step up their own game in order to “keep” us satisfied – be that with amazing sex, extra romance, other rewards, or all of the above.
Happy Hotwifing!
-S
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Ladies I have another question for you....
What’s one thing you wish guy did while he was going down ?
Oh MY God! I know it’s no secret how much this turns me on, but every time I see an image like this, my heart rate instantly increases and it takes my breath away. I LOVE LOVE LOVE to see a Frantic Rock Hard “Denied” Cock while the woman naturally gets all the magisterial pleasure she wants. Now and then I confess to my loving husband that sometimes I really feel sorry for him, for all the orgasmic pleasure I’ve denied him over the years, when he is Always so generous and eager To Make Me Orgasm So Often. He always tells me “That’s Nonsense”, that he’s the luckiest man in the world and that I milk him "DRY" Often Enough.
If He wasn’t becoming (Impossibly) MORE Devotional towards me each week, I wouldn’t trust him so much and I wouldn’t believe him - Because Orgasms for me Feel Just SO Incredible; how could my sweetie enjoy habitual “Edging” Tease and Denial - It seems like absolute and endless Torture to me - I guess I’ll Never Understand? Anyways, My (Increasingly) Venerating Husband and I have been together now almost a decade, and if you add that up… I’ve for certain had at least 10,000 more Glorious Orgasms than my Darling by now. If what he says is true, that he DOES enjoy being teased and then routinely “Denied” his imminent Orgasm, then we truly ARE a match made in heaven; because, and I don’t know why, but I can’t help it… I LOVE LOVE LOVE My Virile Husbands Straining, HARD (Cock-Ringed) vein-filled, twitching, oh so desperate-to-cum - 9 inch Perfectly Curved, Joystick of a COCK.
The more I Tease, Torture and Deny his Beautifully Responsive (Magnificent) MANHOOD the Juicier and More Turned ON I get - The more it Pulsates and Throbs with such an Utter Raging Desperation, the Hotter and Hornier I get - AND the more his erection Helplessly Leaks, “Crys" and Oozes precum like a river, the wetter and hornier I ultimately get… and if my husband loves his Subordination SO MUCH as I Dominate and straddle his Face (Queening Him) why should I try and change him. He’s become quite Proficient at giving me Divine Orgasms and I Flood his Hungry Face or “Incarcerated” Joystick Daily… Boy am I ever so Grateful He’s ALL Mine. Here’s to a wonderful 2015, another year together for us - More Glorious Orgasmic Bliss for me than I can Imagine - More Libido Building Horny Frustration for Him, and more of Femdom Done Right!! To another year of at least 1,000 more orgasms you’ll be missing out on MY LOVE, compared to me - My Sweet Darling!
Love your blog! Would love to hear more prior to the coin flip game, how did it all get started?
Wow. I searched through, and can’t find that I’ve ever posted this history anywhere, even though I thought that I had. If I did, I can’t find, it, so I’ll briefly recap.
When we first started dating, we were hot and heavy, and had sex A LOT! So much so, that I started to worry that he just wanted me for a piece of ass. I wanted a man who would love all of me, not me just for my sex, and since our relation seemed to be based only on sex, I decided better to cut my losses and move on, so I broke up with him, as hard as that was because I still was crazy about him. I didn’t take his calls for a long time, but he was persistent, and I finally explained to him why I broke up with him, and he promised that he wanted me for more than just sex with me, and to prove it, he promised he wouldn’t initiate any sex at all with me that I didn’t start first. I was dubious, but especially because I knew I still loved him, I decided to give him a chance. I took him back on the one condition that he wasn’t allowed to initiate any sex that I didn’t start.
We went some time with nothing sexual between us, and he seemed to be keeping his word, which made me feel better. On top of that, it was me who was starting to miss the sex, so on one date, I decided to let him pet me to let some of my pressure off, and I loved his fondling and caressing me. At the same time, I didn’t do anything for him. I was waiting for him to betray himself and ask for something, but he never did. He kept his word. In time, him getting me off, and going home with blue balls became the norm, and I discovered not only did I like it, I loved it. Something about sending him away adjusting his pants and walking funny turned me on even more, and there I discovered my fetish for teasing and denying him.
Eventually, I realized he was just going home to spank his monkey after our dates, which seemed to deflate my fetish. In my fantasy, he depended on me to get off, but I wouldn’t let him, so I brought this up. I asked if he would be willing to forgo even masturbation that I don’t initiate for him, and he agreed. Not only did he agree, he admitted that it made his dick even harder wondering when if ever I would let him cum again. He seemed to be enjoying my control over his orgasms as much as I was. We discovered then that we were a match made in heaven. It was then that I started straight up teasing him, stroking his dick and daring him to cum without permission. He used to have to make me stop for fear of coming without authorization, but over time, I got to know his body better, and less and less did he have to tell me to stop. I learned how far I could push him and still keep his balls blue, which we both loved beyond measure. As for me, teasing and whipping him up made me so hungry for sex that I started to crave and enjoy it like never before. Back then, I used to cum like ten or more times a day. Being a powerful woman in charge is very liberating.
Fast forward to our engagement. I made it clear that be engaged, it was no longer acceptable for him to get off in any way shape or form without my approval, and any such sexual activity would, in my book, be considered a betrayal as bad as cheating on me. At this point, we didn’t talk about it, but the unspoken rule was that these rules didn’t apply to me. Then we got engaged.
As we were preparing for our wedding we started to work on our vows, and it was during this process, that we formalized our relationship dynamic, that he must vow his fidelity to me, up to and including never coming without my consent. At the same time, the rules of fidelity would not apply to me, that I would be forever bound to him in marriage, but not bound by fidelity. My sexuality would have no limits. Trust me, he would get so excited when we’d talk about various scenarios where other men were doing me. I personally didn’t have plans to follow this through, I just liked having the freedom of possibilities.
He wore a chastity device for the first time riding from the church to the reception. It was my surprise gift to him. And I kept him locked for our entire honeymoon. I came on our honeymoon in every way, shape, and form, and all he got was wedded blue balls. This is a memory we cherish.
That’s the short version.
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In a world where the absence of decency and class is so missed, we need to lift up those, who uphold values, virtues, decency, humility and kindness. When a nation of ladies arises, a nation of gentlemen will follow. Empowering and appreciating women is the most important thing a gentleman can do. Keep chivalry alive. . . . . #class #humility #women #ladies #virtues #values #manners #behavior #humility #kindness #gracious #beautiful #gorgeous #annehathaway #charlizetheron #milakunis #johannavoncoburg #angelinajolie #audreyhepburn #lilycollins #jenniferlawrence #chivalry #beanaudrey #inaworldfullofkardashiansbeanaudrey (at Hamburg, Germany)
What’s going through her mind while she stands there waiting for her surprise… how wet would you be?
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