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I find your lack of whimsy disturbing

Coffee

(n.) A legal drug.

i am supposed to have the energy… to do stuff...?

Gojohime is funny bc Gojo's personal feelings regarding Utahime have a surprising amount of depth when you look into his actions, while Utahime's totally annoyed and unimpressed attitude towards Gojo is hilariously simple minded

Gojo: *100% trusts her to not betray him, relies on her to find the mole, relies on her ability to strengthen his cursed technique (literally everyone else would get in his way if they tried helping him), calls her weak but counts on her anyways, always goes out of his way to tease her on sight bc he loves their banter, turns off his infinity around her showing how she is one of the few ppl left he can relax around*

Utahime: he an annoying ass bitch

"never kill yourself" is perhaps my favourite meme these days. there will always be joy in your future and you just need to stick it out to find it

Jupiter, Moon, Saturn above the Black Hills of Central, Az. Double exposure.

"I hate you," and you're the object of all my desire and the bane of my existence

me 24/7

I’m about to save you thousands of dollars in therapy by teaching you what I learned paying thousands of dollars for therapy:

It may sound woo woo but it’s an important skill capitalism and hyper individualism have robbed us of as human beings.

Learn to process your emotions. It will improve your mental health and quality of life. Emotions serve a biological purpose, they aren’t just things that happen for no reason.

1. Pause and notice you’re having a big feeling or reaching for a distraction to maybe avoid a feeling. Notice what triggered the feeling or need for a distraction without judgement. Just note that it’s there. Don’t label it as good or bad.

2. Find it in your body. Where do you feel it? Your chest? Your head? Your stomach? Does it feel like a weight everywhere? Does it feel like you’re vibrating? Does it feel like you’re numb all over?

3. Name the feeling. Look up an emotion chart if you need to. Find the feeling that resonates the most with what you’re feeling. Is it disappointment? Heartbreak? Anxiety? Anger? Humiliation?

4. Validate the feeling. Sometimes feelings misfire or are disproportionately big, but they’re still valid. You don’t have to justify what you’re feeling, it’s just valid. Tell yourself “yeah it makes sense that you feel that right now.” Or something as simple as “I hear you.” For example: If I get really big feelings of humiliation when I lose at a game of chess, the feeling may not be necessary, but it is valid and makes sense if I grew up with parents who berated me every time I did something wrong. So I could say “Yeah I understand why we are feeling that way given how we were treated growing up. That’s valid.”

5. Do something with your body that’s not a mental distraction from the feeling. Something where you can still think. Go on a walk. Do something with your hands like art or crochet or baking. Journal. Clean a room. Figure out what works best for you.

6. Repeat, it takes practice but is a skill you can learn :)